Friday, January 28, 2011

7 Blocks To Creative Thinking And How To Solve Them

Each of us has the power to be creative. It's part of our natural make-up as human beings. The trouble is that, too often, we block our natural creativity and so make errors in thinking and give ourselves more problems than we should. Here are 7 ways to open up your natural creativity and keep the channels unblocked.

1. Don't Make Assumptions. When we assume, we often make an "ass" out of "u" and "me". Assumptions are examples of lazy thinking. We simply don't wait to get all the information we need to come to the right conclusions. There is the story of the customer at the bank who after cashing a cheque and turning to leave, returns and says: "Excuse me, I think you made a mistake." The cashier responds, "I'm sorry but there's nothing I can do. You should have counted it. Once you walk away we are no longer responsible." Whereupon the customer replies: "Well, okay. Thanks for the extra $20."
Tip: When you feel yourself wanting to draw conclusions, just wait until you have all the information.

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Share Your Day's Activities

Even the closest couples these days (with the rare, happy exceptions of those who work together) spend more awake time apart in their separate careers than they do together. The individual you are at work, no matter what career you pursue, is very different than the person you are within your romantic relationship. 
That is why everyone loves company parties: coworkers get the chance to see the spouses or dates of everyone else. It is frequently a real shock to get a glimpse into a fellow worker's private life - the domineering manager who consistently defers to their quiet spouse, or the mousy little file clerk who clearly dominates her extraordinarily handsome lover.
Closeness with your partner can be deepened by taking the time to share your daily activities. We often assume that our significant others aren't really interested in our work life. To the contrary, when we love someone, we want to be part of their everything. We want to vicariously live in our loved one's world, hear what they did, who else was present, what kind of work relationships they enjoy. We want to know the gossip that's flying around, We want them to describe their coworkers and their assessment of the people and events in which they are involved.

Saturday, January 22, 2011

The World's Greatest Lie...

"Everyone believes the world's greatest lie..." says the mysterious old man.
"What is the world's greatest lie?" the little boy asks.
The old man replies, "It's this: that at a certain point in our lives, we lose control of what's happening to us, and our lives become controlled by fate. That's the world's greatest lie."
(An excerpt from The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho. A fable about following your dreams.)

Do you believe you have no control over your life? Are you who you are today, by choice or by fate? Will a change in your actions create a change in your life? Many people have given up on their dreams... they say, "Dreaming is only for the rich. When you have money, you can dream. When you have no money, don't dream."

Who Determines Your True Worth?

Some say your JOB because they pay you a salary or hourly wage and offer (or do not offer) benefits, perks, etc.

Some say the vehicle you drive, the house you live in, the neighborhood you live, your friends, your clothes, where you hang out, and on and on.

You have natural talents or skills, those that seem to be inherent within you. Getting along with people easily, being able to logically figure things out, ability to focus and stay focused, being organized, making things happen, etc. And then you have your learned (acquired) talents or skills from attending College, reading and listening to tapes, attending seminars, On the Job Training (OJT), being tutored by someone, etc.

But these talents or skills do not determine your True Worth.

How To Become An Opinion Leader...

"How do I get good people to listen to me?"

When's the last time you asked yourself that?

Part of the reason marketers everywhere have such a tough time getting people to listen to them is because their audiences (i.e., us) don't believe them entirely.

So how can they become an opinion leader?

Problema...

We all know the marketers are "selling" whatever (they're professionals aren't they?) and that they'll say whatever nice words and make whatever promises they have to, to make the sale.

So we, as marketers, are suspect. Yes, including network marketers. Because a normal consumer doesn't know if we say the nice things to sell it and make a few shekels, or because we really love it ourselves.

Here's the good news...

The Driving Force In All Of Us

What is it that makes you get out of bed in the morning, stumble to the shower and get dressed for work? The answer is motivation. This is what keeps us going through life, coping with all the daily stresses, pain and suffering. We are constantly motivated to make our lives better by doing whatever we can to make improvements.

That's fine for adults, but what motivates children, you might ask. Just think back to the days when you were in elementary school. What was it that made you go to school each day, besides your parents waking you up and making you go? The motivation of meeting your friends and socializing was one of the reasons. The other is that even then you knew that you needed an education to get you through life. The promise of a new bike or the teacher's praise kept you working at your studies and passing the tests.

Seek Assistance From Government Mortgage Help Plan

President Obama has taken a significant step to make housing affordable to the American public who are in financial distress. Through various schemes like Government Mortgage Help Plan, Americans now have opportunities to modify or refinance their mortgage and make their monthly payments more affordable. Simply put, Government Mortgage Help Plan is designed with an objective to assist homeowners in refinancing their mortgages even if they are in a tight corner. For example, if they owe more than their home's current value.

Creating Various Fashion Styles With an Ideal Purse

It is without doubt a wonderful handbag can help build a good way from the crowd, the other woman. Typically, the most appropriate for us is not necessarily the most exciting portfolio, but with our own style and personality of consent. An ideal wallet, we can learn to create all kinds of fashion styles, such as portfolios consider the extent possible. Therefore, it is essential to choose the correct wallet.

From reviewing your portfolio and the relationship between body, you should pay attention to the shape and size of a portfolio to see if it can be good or not please your body. In general, a wide leather belt stock with a long list of women who may have big breasts, and the hope of attracting the attention of the ideal breast. For women small, small circle of wallet can be enormous. On the other hand, how you carry your wallet will also affect the body shape looks like. For example, if you want more, then you should choose a bag, belt hung lower than you.

Can You Rebuild a Broken Relationship?

If you have found that your relationship is in trouble, don't worry, you are not alone. If you want to rebuild a broken relationship with your significant other, go back to the beginning and start again, moving forward.

Think back - what made your partner attractive to you in the first place? Think back to the early days and remember the intensity and passion you had - and reclaim it, as you had it in those first moments.

What were those early times like? Were you simply "going with the flow," or were you building a firm foundation for the future? Those initial passions can indeed fade.

You can have the promise of a long-term relationship only if you continue to pay attention to each other, work on having mutual interests together, having respect for each other, and communicating well on a daily basis, involving the two of you as a couple.

Online Education: A Good Help For A Better Career

Modern technology plays an important role in people's life today. Most of the things that people do involves the use of technology. With its help, our workload became easier and faster to handle. And as society continues to develop, the workforce also needs to level their work capacity to the community's development. That is why people became too busy with their everyday responsibilities. They usually do multi tasking in order attend all their duties that is scheduled for a certain day. They do not just work and work to earn a living. People also needs to enhance their skills and learn new things for them not to be left behind by the rapid progression of economy. And with the help of those modern technologies, higher education and training programs can now be achieved easier through online.
The mode of education that is acquired through the use of high technologies like computer and Internet service is what we call online education or distance learning. It suits well to people who have hectic schedules and are used to multi tasking. It benefits them a lot because of its flexibility and accessibility. Students here can learn while they are earning. They can study at their own pace without the worry of giving up their present job. As long as the student have the patience and hardwork, they can surely finish their course degree on time and reach their goals in life.

Twelve Traits To Look For In A Potential Addiction Counselor

Drug addiction counseling is an essential component of the recovery journey. It is important to remember that addiction is a complex disease that creates havoc physically, mentally and spiritually. Because of this, it is essential that all of your physical, emotional and spiritual needs be met by a supportive addiction counselor.

Addiction is a huge problem to overcome and the idea of starting a treatment program can be a daunting one. A good addiction counselor will be your best friend and your worst enemy, often at the same time. A good addiction counselor will always act as your advocate, while helping you through the twists and turns of the daily journey to recovery. A good addiction counselor will provide you with support, which is essential to achieving a successful outcome.

The most important thing to look for when finding a good addiction counselor is ensuring that the person is certified and experienced. It is also a good idea to find an addiction counselor who is willing to involve your family in the recovery process. This is essential since your family will most likely be your most valuable support system as you try to conquer your addiction. Do your research. It is crucial to your recovery that you find an addiction counselor who makes you feel safe and secure. Ask for recommendations from others who have experienced treatment and recovery. Ask your pastor for help finding a good addiction counselor. Someone will be able to help you find a counselor who makes your road less bumpy.

Drug addiction counseling is essential to your success in treatment. It is important to find an addiction counselor that you will be comfortable with every step of the way.

Having A Plan

I recently read in the newspaper an article regarding an injury that occurred at a construction site of a well known building and it made me wonder if they had a Quality Assurance Plan in place when this happened. Apparently a young man of just 25 years of age was a sub contractor at a site operating lift equipment and an accident took place which left him with severe head and chest injuries. Paramedics had to revive him before they transported him to a hospital. This entire incident brought the awareness of construction site safety to the mind of everyone involved. The constuction company feels they had the proper Quality Assurance Plan in place to protect their workers and keep them safe.